The most important thing to remember is that when you're online in any kind of a public forum, you're out in public and anyone can read whatever you post. You should never post anything on the Internet that you wouldn't want known to the public at large. You should also remember that people you meet in cyberspace might not be whom they seem to be.

1. Keep your identity private

If you're in any type of public forum, do not give out your full name, your mailing address, your telephone number, the name of your school, or any other information that could help someone determine your actual identity. The same applies to your family and friends.

  2. Never get together with someone you "meet" online

The biggest danger to your safety is if you get together with someone you "meet" online. Remember, you never know for certain if people you meet online are whom they say they are. If you do feel it's appropriate, the safest procedure is to have your parents talk with the parents of the other person before meeting. For the first meeting, both of you should bring your parents along and meet in a public place that is familiar and comfortable.  

3. Never respond to e-mail, chat comments, instant messages or other messages that are hostile, belligerent, inappropriate, or in any way make you feel uncomfortable

It isn't your fault if you get a message that is mean or in any way makes you feel uncomfortable. If you get such a message, don't respond. Instead, show it to your parents or a trusted adult to see if there is anything you can do to make it stop. Sending a response just encourages the person. If someone sends you messages, or images that are filthy, indecent, lewd, or obscene, with the intent to abuse, annoy, harass, or threaten you, report it to your internet service provider and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's Cyber Tipline at www.cybertipline.com, or by calling 1-800-843-5678. You should also report it to school authorities if the incident takes place at school or involves other students from your school.  

4. Talk with your parents about their expectations and ground rules for going online

It's important that you and your parents are on the same "page" when it comes to your online activities. This includes when you can go online, how long you can stay online, and what activities you can do online. Communicating with your parents doesn't mean that you have to give up your privacy. It just means that you come to an agreement based on mutual trust and understanding. While you're at it, perhaps you can help your parents better understand the Internet, what it can be used for, and how it is helpful for teens.  

Reference:
Magid, Larry. (2006) Teen Safety on the Information Highway. Retrieved from www.safeteens.com/safeteens.htm on January 5, 2007.